WHAT IS THE IDEAL
LIVING SITUATION FOR TWO PEOPLE IN A RELATIONSHIP?
When two people become a couple whether straight or
gay, what is the ideal living situation? There are times in a relationship when
the couple couldn’t just get enough of each other and want to spend most of their
time together especially at the early part of the relationship. For some
romantics, if they could live within the same skin as the person they love,
they would.
But the real question remains, what is the ideal
living situation?
Should they maintain their own place together? Is
it rushing things if they do? Should they practice the getting-to-know each
other phase before doing so? This is co-dependency.
The in-between. Two people still maintain separate house
but do sleep overs. The one that indicates intimacy in a relationship but still
connotes individualities. Is it ideal to leave things in your partner’s house
to signify attachment? Is it ideal to maintain two separate houses in case of a meltdown between partners?
And lastly, the old school type. No attachment.
Living separately and practicing tradition of marriage first before intimacy.
What are you up to? What is your preference?
Personally, I do not give a heck as long as you are
with the person you truly love. It wouldn’t matter whether you live together or
apart. What is important is you know the value of each other and that is what
matters most.
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